Tuesday, February 11, 2014

Breaking up over text

What is the worst way to break up with someone? Nowadays most people would reply that receiving an impersonal text message is one of the worst ways to end a relationship. I believe that it is not okay to end a relationship this way. I support this because by sending a text message to end a partnership eliminates most emotional attachment. Due to this, sometimes one of the people in the relationship may be confused on what is happening in their partnership. An example of this would be if a person sent to their significant other in a text "we need to take a break," or "you're not the same person you were as when we started dating." The other person in the relationship may not understand the their entire bond is broken, and rather think that they still have some emotional attachment. By breaking up with someone in person you are able to communicate completely with body language and inflections of your voice.
I do believe that there are certain circumstances in which a person should break up with someone over text. For example, if a person's life is in danger because their significant other is mentally unstable, it is more than acceptable to have that person put their own safety before their relationship. Another circumstance in which it is acceptable to break up with someone over text is when the relationship is long distance. Even then, though, a call is preferred.

Tuesday, February 4, 2014

My Playlist, Myself

Top Six Songs:


"Make You Feel My Love" by Adele


"Even if it Breaks Your Heart" by Eli Young Band


"Ordinary People" by John Legend


"Overjoyed" by Matchbox 20


"I'll Fly Away" from O Brother, Where Art Thou


"Seasons of Love" from the musical, Rent


Music speaks to every individual differently. These six songs, however, have connected to me above the rest in a very special way. All of these pieces have very symbolic lyrics that have spoken to generations of listeners. I can connect to these lyrics very well because they are very relatable and empowering. For me, the best aspect of these songs are that they are extremely comforting. All the artists of these pieces write about love, hope, and perseverance. I really enjoy this aspect and attempt to exemplify in my personality. I also enjoy how these song lyrics are written about those with undying love for someone or something. The singers' show how much they can care for something even in times of darkness. I think this is a great example of my life. Even though some things become difficult, I can always count on someone to guide me through it. This is shown through these songs. 
I found these songs in, my opinion, the best way possible. I found some by sharing them with my friends who are very close to me. The rest, though, I found singing with my choir in high school. This is the reason that the songs "I'll Fly Away" from O Brother, Where Art Thou and "Seasons of Love" from Rent are so personal to me. I believe that music takes on a different level of meaning for a person when it is sung with a choir. I was lucky enough to sing those two songs with my choir which created a special connection for me. It was an amazing experience to be able to sing these songs with my choir. We all learned how to create music on a different level, and leave an impression to those who had never heard the songs before. Even now, returning to high school my choir has said that there favorite songs had been "I'll Fly Away" from O Brother, Where Art Thou and "Seasons of Love" from Rent. It's a great feeling to know that even though we all will eventually go our separate ways that we still have music that brings us together.